In her book, Alone Together, Sherry Turkle discusses Facebook profiles and id entity construction. She also interviews a young woman who refers to “her Facebook profile as ‘my internet twin’ and ‘the avatar of me’ ”. I definitely know what she means in saying this. You construct your Facebook and it reflects numerous areas of your lifestyle. I can say this about my own profile. Even though it does not catch every detail of my life, it definitely captures the type of person I am in some ways. However, Facebook more so catches you during the spare time in your life. It captures moments of your life when you are out with friends, at big events and just having fun while hanging out with friends. It does show a true side to your life, but not every side. Like I’ve said I feel as if it shows more of the fun and laid back parts of you life. I know for a fact that my Facebook doesn’t show me in a serious light. It may show me out with friends and me on vacations but it doesn’t show anyone that I am going to graduating college with two great internships under my belt and how involved I was on campus throughout my four years at Sacred Heart.
I am the same as my Facebook profile in the aspects of my appearance, I look the same on there as I do in person, and also the information I’ve provided for people to see. I am a 21-year-old male from Pompton Lakes, NJ going to school at Sacred Heart University and my birthday is April 22,1990. Also, it shows what kind of music I like and who my friends are. However, it does not show me when I am being serious. If you look on my Facebook you would assume I am always out having fun and hanging out with my friends. Although I do enjoy those things I do go to class, go to work and do my school work throughout the week as well.
Besides from the obvious things, you also wouldn’t exactly know that I am from an upper-middle social class but I was still raised by a single mom. You also wouldn’t be able to tell all of my nationalities. I mean someone could look at my profile picture and see a tall, blonde haired, blue-eyed male and say “Oh wow, he looks really Dutch”. However, they wouldn’t know that I am also English, German and Native American.
Getting more specific, Facebook still shows even less that you originally thought. Yes you can see I have friends and I was an athlete throughout high school and somewhat into college. But there is not anything showing my aspects of being a son and a scholar. Yes, I obviously go to college as you can see on my profile. But someone doesn’t follow me into a classroom with a camera and take pictures of me while I take notes in class like they do when I go to a bar to celebrate my friend’s birthday.
I often get very mad when people say that employers look at your Facebook because I do not feel as if that is right. Presently, when I look at my Facebook I see a kid who has having fun while he still could, not someone who just screwed around while he was in college. I want my ideal Facebook profile to say just what mine does about me now. I feel like my Facebook shows that I am a very fun and outgoing person. If people want to know what I am like on a professional level than I’ll let them look at my resume, not my Facebook.